The wife has a virtual romance. Virtual love - treason or innocent infatuation. Blackmail with candid photos and videos

Psychologists are concerned about a new family problem, cyberwidowhood syndrome. Having plunged into the virtual world, men stop paying attention to their families and leave their wives.

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The Internet has made it possible to get acquainted easily, quickly and intensively. In the virtual world, you can invent yourself and your partner, and not bear any moral responsibility. Alexander Makhnach, candidate of psychological sciences, senior researcher at the Institute of Psychology of the Russian Academy of Sciences, says: “A person invents a name for himself, a way of life, a profession, an age - practically, he pretends to be a non-existent hero. He is there necessarily handsome, smart, gallant, that is, he is not what he usually is in life.

To evil

Rita lived with her husband for thirteen years. All the years, neighbors and relatives considered Igor an exemplary spouse, but since the Internet appeared in the house, the attentive and caring spouse seemed to have been replaced. Two months ago, Rita discovered that her ideal husband was having an affair with a virtual blonde. “I read all his erotic fantasies, everything he thinks about and dreams about, and I was just in shock,” the woman says with bitterness in her voice.

The revelations found in the correspondence, Rita was simply stunned. She considered this a betrayal and decided to divorce her husband, but Igor did not expect such a reaction. As a rule, virtual lovers who are passionate about the game do not consider erotic correspondence cheating. “In general, this is some kind of nonsense,” Igor is indignant, “I don’t understand why you need to get a divorce, all this is not like a joke, all this is not worth a damn. Maybe I didn’t even correspond with a woman, but with a man, you never know what idiots climb the Internet. I don’t know, maybe some guy took a photo of his sister and writes to me.”

The arguments of her husband did not console Margarita, and she is determined divorce. It is not clear what reason she will write in the divorce application. It is unlikely that Russian judges will consider virtual treason a serious reason for divorce, although in European courts online treason has already been recognized as an official reason for divorce.

Or for good

“You can consider such a novel as treason, if only because any thought of treason is already treason,” says psychologist Alexander Makhnach.

But the opposite also happens. Accidentally discovering the virtual correspondence of the spouse, the second half begins to understand what her man lacks in family relationships. In such cases, revelations read on the Internet become useful to both spouses. “An online romance, which one of my clients accidentally found out about, suggested to her several ways to change their life together,” says Alexander Makhnach, “but this is a rare, exceptional case. Most often, Internet correspondence is a secret carefully hidden from a spouse.

Today, in the era of the Internet, relationships, virtual dating and long-distance relationships are becoming the norm. He is often dissuaded from such relationships by his family, and friends warn him not to take such novels too seriously. But psychologists are sure that if you follow some rules, long-distance relationships can end in a happy real union.

“After the wedding, we immediately left for our honeymoon. I went to Turkey, my wife went to Switzerland and lived there for three years in love and harmony...”
Quote from the movie "The same Munchausen".

Everything can get complicated, and sometimes it will “cover” sadness and loneliness. However, the extra distance also makes the simplest things the cutest. Being able to hold another person's hand, eat together at the same table, feel each other's touch, walk together, smell hair... these little desires can suddenly mean so much more in a long distance relationship. So, what can you do to keep the feelings.

1. Separation as an opportunity

There is a saying, "If you want to live together, you must first learn to live separately." You can look at this situation as a "training session" for both and as a test of love for each other. As the Chinese proverb says, "Real gold is not afraid of being tested by fire." Instead of thinking that a long-distance relationship is tearing lovers in two, it is worth convincing yourself that through this experience, both will be bonded together even more strongly.

2. Waiting rules

Both should clearly understand what is expected of each other during this relationship at a distance. It is worth laying down some ground rules so that no one does anything that will take the other side by surprise. For example, it is worth stipulating whether the other person can go on dates. It's better to be open with each other about all these things.

3. Regularity of communication

Saying "good morning" and "good night" every day is a must. In addition, it is worth telling your partner about your life and the events taking place in it. It will also be useful to send each other photos, sound clips and short videos from time to time.

5. "Dangerous" situations

If one knows that going to a club or drinking late with friends will make the partner angry, then one should either not do it or warn the partner in advance to calm him/her down. Don't be careless about this, as your partner will only become more worried or overly suspicious and, of course, very upset.

4. Intimate topics

Sexual tension is undoubtedly one of the most important things between couples. Sexual desire is like a glue that keeps both parties from drifting apart. But not only intimacy is a biological need, but also an emotional one. You need to “keep the fire going” by sending each other teasing texts filled with sexual innuendo and provocative descriptions. Sexual puns will also come in handy.

6. Excessive communication

It's unwise to be too "sticky and sticky." Two people don't necessarily need to talk 12 hours a day to maintain a relationship. Many couples feel they need to make up for the distance by talking more. This is not true, and such a thing can only worsen the situation. Soon you can "get tired of love", because the lovers will simply exhaust themselves.

7. Messenger

This is extremely important because text messages are the most frequent and common way of communication that people who are at a distance from each other have. Therefore, both will definitely need a good messaging app on their phones.

8. Joint leisure

For example, you can recommend books, TV shows, movies, music, news, etc. When people read, watch, and listen to the same things, they get more topics to talk about. This is useful for creating some common experience, even if the lovers live apart.

9. Video calls

Because looking into each other's eyes and hearing each other's voices can make you feel good again.

10. Joint purchases

You can play an online game together, watch a documentary on YouTube, sing to each other on Skype, walk at the same time while talking on the phone or the same Skype, visit online stores together and buy gifts for each other .... There are many options. You really have to be creative and spontaneous.

11. General plans

“What do we want to achieve at the end of the day”, “how long will we be apart”, “what about the future”... these are the questions to ask yourself. The truth is that no couple can be at a great distance from each other forever. Therefore, it is worth making a joint plan, sticking to a schedule, marking time apart and time together, and try to achieve the ultimate goal. It is important that both are "in the same stream" and have the same goals.

12. Honesty

It is worth telling each other about your feelings of fear, insecurity, jealousy, apathy. If someone tries to hide something from their partner, this secret will sooner or later "eat" him from the inside. You don't have to try to figure everything out on your own. We need to be frank and honest with each other, because it is better to address the problem together at the initial stage than it will simply be revealed when everything is too late.

13. Be aware

It will always be useful to know when the other person is busy and when he is free, so that he can text or call him at the right time. After all, I would not want to disturb my partner when he is at a business meeting.

Therefore, it is worth knowing both small and significant events that occur or will occur in each other's lives, for example, when there will be exams, important business trips and meetings, interviews, etc. This is especially important if people live in different time belts.

14. Baubles

A memento has great power, whether it's a small pendant, a ring, a keychain, a collection of songs and videos, or a bottle of perfume. People often attach importance to the little things and objects of everyday life, whether it happens consciously or not.

Everyone does this - they try to store memories in physical things, in the hope that when memories fade, you can always look at or hold something that will help you remember something specific. That is why something even very simple can mean so much to a person.

15. Positive

Both lovers need to constantly “inject” positive energy into long-distance relationships in order to maintain them. Yes, the wait can be painful, and both can sometimes feel lonely, but you must always remind yourself that in the end it will result in happiness. One good trick to staying positive is to be grateful all the time.

To be grateful that you have someone who loves, even at a distance, and this is mutual, to be grateful for any little things shown to each other, to be grateful for each other's health and safety.

BONUS

And in continuation of the topic. Take care of your relationship!

The more time we spend in the virtual space, the more real it begins to seem. In this world, there is no morality as such, the norms of behavior in society can be safely stepped over, hiding under the mask of anonymity.

Why is virtual space so attractive?

Man is designed in such a way that he needs to constantly improve himself. If someone considers that he has reached the desired level of development and stops there, then he will degrade, and will not freeze in the current state.

But moving forward and developing a person as a person requires not only time, but also significant efforts. In addition, you want to immediately see the result and note your progress.

To say, not to be

There is a temptation to take a shortcut: not to become, but to seem better. On the Internet, you can be anyone. Why go to the gym and limit yourself to food when you can find a pretty photo and pass it off as your own? You do not need to take care of yourself, in the virtual world they will not notice that you have not brushed your teeth for 3 days.

And although it may seem that it helps to become better in life, to achieve good results, in fact it is not so at all. This is a fast track to the abyss of frustration and self-destruction.

Communication by mood

It is easier to communicate with virtual interlocutors. A bad mood or irritation after a hard day will not be noticeable in intonation or sharp words. When the conversation is in writing, there is time to think about your words. And the fact that the other person does not see us in a vulnerable state gives a sense of security and soothes.

If you are not in the mood to communicate, you will not have to listen to discontent live. You always have an escape route. And you don’t have to worry about the feelings and emotions of the interlocutor, unless, of course, you communicate in the real world.

Communication without obligation

Attractive virtual communication and the fact that it almost never has consequences. You can simply delete your page on the social network and create a new one, leave old friends perplexed in the past.

Virtual love is also safe from the point of view of contraception: sexual diseases are not transmitted over the Internet and the risk of unwanted pregnancy is zero.

Anonymity

Anonymity also protects from condemnation and public censure. If any desires or preferences seem shameful to you, you will almost certainly find like-minded people on the net.

Imaginary freedom

You can invent for yourself any person, give her a name, character, habits, preferences. This fictional person will quickly make friends, he will lead a more interesting life, have virtual sex. Most likely, he will do what you yourself would like to do, but for some reason it does not work out for you. This is a very dangerous path from the point of view of psychology. So deeply immersed in the image of another character, a person risks losing himself.

Virtual cheating - what is it all about?

Everything described above creates the illusion of impunity. Maybe virtual treason and not treason at all? Everything is possible on the Internet. Even what is prohibited by law. You just need to find a way to get to the closed sites. There is no need to be a genius programmer to bypass standard locks.

And pop-up ads often urge us to break the rules of morality, let our desires happen and have virtual sex. Skillfully composed texts muffle the voice of conscience and reason. Therefore, it seems that everything is fine, as it should be.

Communication with other women attracts men. If in real life you need to spend money on your mistress: go to restaurants, buy flowers and gifts for her, pay for a taxi, then it is much easier to start a conversation on the Internet.

Moreover, most people are very shy, they hardly make new acquaintances. What can we say about using hints to understand whether a woman is ready to become a mistress. Therefore, virtual love can be more economical for the family budget.

And in the network, this obstacle is easily eliminated. Rejection is no longer perceived so sharply. Yes, and there are a million contenders, there is always someone to choose from.

As in life, virtual relationships begin innocently enough. We got to know each other and started talking about our interests. And it begins to seem that you are like-minded people, no one understands you like an unknown interlocutor. And you get support from him (only in words), attention, sympathy.

And your mind creates an image of a real person, endowing him with only positive qualities. How can you not get carried away?

And at the first opportunity, your husband checks messages, writes something furtively, put multi-level passwords on his phone, computer. And you can feel it moving away. When you ask about who he communicates with and about what, he avoids answering, accusing you of encroaching on his personal space.

Communication smoothly flows into a more intimate channel. And now your husband is excited not by you, but by an outside woman. She differs from a real mistress in that your husband did not have sexual relations with her. But they could well have exchanged personal photos.

What kind of beast is "virtual sex"?

Virtual sex is a process of obtaining sexual satisfaction without the direct participation of a partner, but he is in touch: either he writes messages, or he talks on the phone or on a webcam.

Messages

A man can engage in self-satisfaction, just by texting with a virtual mistress. By the way, it can be quite real, just this time they diversified the format of their meetings.

They exchange intimate information, simulating sexual intercourse. Virtual love seems like a real passion, but off the Internet, these people would hardly be nice to each other.

phone sex

This is not the latest invention in the sex industry, but the development of communications and the Internet has made it easier and more accessible. Even if the service is provided on a paid basis, the wife may not suspect anything.

In fact, this is sexual communication with the help of voice. The dialogue is structured as if two lovers are having sex at the moment.

Video conference

This is a more progressive form of communication after the voice. The interlocutor can not only be heard, but also seen in all details. There are many paid sites where girls are willing to help a man achieve an orgasm and show themselves from any side.

What is common between real and virtual infidelity?

This type of betrayal is united by the fact that your man during the act of self-satisfaction does not think about you. Thoughts are not about you that delight him, you do not make his heart beat faster. Such virtual love can be disgusting and humiliating for the wife. But what to do?

First, find out the reasons that pushed your husband into another world. Maybe he wants variety, but does not want to change? Or is he ashamed of his desires? Or does he want to be a fit and athletic alpha male, rather than the average beer belly man?

When you get to the bottom of it, you can figure out how to bring your husband back to the real world. He may need the help of a psychotherapist. First of all, he is pushed into the virtual world by his own fears and complexes.

Is it worth it to forgive virtual treason

If you think that virtual sex is not sex at all, and you will eliminate the reasons for this behavior of your husband, then forgive him. We always strive for something new and unknown, but we do not always do it in the right way.

But if it’s unbearably disgusting for you to look at your husband, then evaluate what is more important for you: to preserve and revive the good that was between you or to destroy this relationship to the ground and create your family anew with another person? At this point, do not think about the children or what your relatives will say. Living with a person to whom you feel disgust is terrible. Moreover, your children will suffer more from this.

If the family is more expensive, then forgive and forget. Create a trusting relationship at home, do not scold or judge. Give your man the support he needs. Let him feel that he has a reliable rear.

What if it repeats

So you seem to have figured out the reasons, understood and forgave your husband, but he still spends more time on dubious sites than with you. And again virtual betrayal! What's the matter?

The fact is that such leisure is addictive. Usually one conversation does not stop forever. Depriving the virtual world, a man feels emptiness. She scares him.

Therefore, it is very important to prevent its occurrence. You must take on the task of preventing your husband from getting online again. Therefore, we replace virtual communication with live ones. Meet friends more often, go to visit.

Think of new hobbies. Now there are many different master classes. Do you want to cook sushi or pizza, practice calligraphy or learn how to paint with watercolors? Sign up soon!

Don't forget to walk together more often. Fresh air is good for health, and observing wildlife is calming and soothing.

Diversify your leisure time. Go to exhibitions and theaters, arrange dates in cafes. Go in for sports: run together in the mornings in the summer, and go skiing on the winter weekends.

You can invite your friends to share your new hobbies. More fun together!

Enact strict rules and regulations regarding technical devices:

• in the bedroom there is no place for a telephone and a computer;
• when we eat at the same table, all TVs, computers, phones are turned off or put aside;
• while going to the toilet or shower, the phone remains in the place allotted for it;
• no one under any circumstances has the right to take his phone without permission;
• we need a phone and a computer for work, for communication, devote more time to personal meetings.

Gradually, your husband will return to the real world, because he is so interesting. But since you know that he has such a tendency to withdraw into himself in a safe place, then you are armed. At the first sign of a renewed virtual life, you will quickly take action to get your husband back.

And reconsider your views on sexual experiments. Maybe you yourself will like it. Don't be a prude in the bedroom. Or maybe your husband himself will be disappointed in his fantasies. After all, in the imagination everything is different than in life.

Fall in love with compliments and beautiful courtship, promise a cloudless future, eternal love and a happy family, and then deceive and rob to the skin. Fraudsters on dating sites are ready to “lead” their victim for weeks and even months, if only they later managed to get as much money from her as possible. Some scammers can be identified fairly quickly, but there are aces who do their job so professionally and flawlessly that it is simply impossible to recognize them. the site learned about the most cunning ways of fraud on dating sites that you should know in order not to get caught.

Got money for a ticket

One of the simplest “divorce” schemes for money on dating sites is a direct request for money. It seems that if a stranger suddenly starts a persistent conversation about the material, you should immediately stop communicating with him. But for some reason, the vigilance of some users, fascinated by the interlocutors on the other side of the screen, at some point just falls asleep. Moreover, both women and men become victims of such banal scams.

25-year-old Nikolai from Vladivostok met a girl from Volgograd on the site. Young people corresponded for about six months, told each other secrets and shared dreams. The man himself did not notice how he fell in love, although he had never seen his chosen one. The girl promised to fly to Nikolai to visit, but said that she did not have money to buy a plane ticket. The unsuspecting guy transferred the necessary funds to the card, and immediately after that, the virtual lover stopped communicating. As a result, the man lost about 20,000 rubles.

Realizing that he fell for a banal "divorce" on a dating site, Nikolai tried to return the money. The young man knew the details of the scammer, including phone number, last name and address. However, experts say that this is impossible, since the transfer was voluntary. Dating site scammers are very patient and can build relationships with the victim for a long time in order to fully gain trust before deception.

As a rule, they do not ask for anything until it comes to a real meeting. And if the "object" himself expresses a desire to fly to visit the interlocutor, he is sent to the fake website of the airline. There, the victim will buy a plane ticket, but in reality the money will go into the pocket of the attackers. Sometimes a swindler does not ask for money until the last. But suddenly it turns out that he was detained at the airport due to some ridiculous overlay (problems with luggage, an expired document, etc.). And for release it is necessary to pay a fine, for which, of course, there are no funds. Well, then either direct extortion begins, or pressure on pity.

Trap with minors

While communicating with girls on dating sites, men sometimes do not even know about the real age of their interlocutors. But some are not embarrassed by the fact that a minor is corresponding with them. True, when suddenly calls are received on the phone from the police, claiming that they are facing a criminal case for pedophilia, users begin to panic. This is a relatively new scam that already has thousands of victims. On forums on the Internet, questions from frightened men appear every now and then, whom, after an unsuccessful visit to a dating site, they are trying to swindle for money under pain of prison.

Igor from Moscow asked a question to the site what he should do in such a situation. For a long time he corresponded on a dating site with a young pretty girl. A virtual friend asked for his phone number to contact, and several times they called up. But after some time, the man received a call from the police. The interlocutor said that the girl from the network is a minor, and her parents filed an application with law enforcement agencies. After that, the policeman gave Vlad the number of the girl's father, with whom the man needs to negotiate for money to stop the criminal case.

Maxim from Moscow asked a similar question to the site. The man knew that he was corresponding with a 17-year-old girl and was very frightened when the “cops” called him. But Roman from St. Petersburg spoke with an interlocutor who stated that she was 22 years old. But after some time, an unknown person, who introduced himself as a law enforcement officer, called him and said that his Internet acquaintance was not even eighteen. Luckily, no one was hurt..

According to experts, if a person is really suspected of seducing minors, then no one will call him - police officers will come home or work without an invitation. But the victims of such calls are usually shocked and do not realize that they are being deceived.

Blackmail with candid photos and videos

It happens that users of dating sites arrange hot video meetings with their virtual lovers. Girls and young people send candid photos and videos to new lovers or communicate with them in real time via Skype. And often then scammers use this compromising evidence to blackmail their victims. The vast majority of victims here are girls. But there are cases when young people become the prey of scammers.

Ilya from Kazan sent his intimate photos to his interlocutor from a dating site. Soon the girl found a guy in one of the social networks and asked for 15,000 rubles so that none of his friends could see these photos. The frightened man, not wanting to be embarrassed in front of his friends, sent the attacker 5,000 rubles, but after that she demanded another 20,000 thousand.

Nikolai from St. Petersburg found himself in a similar situation.. A man writes that a stranger blackmails him on a dating site with intimate photos and promises to post them on social networks if he does not pay 15,000 rubles. Boris from Moscow also faced a similar problem, from whom they demand 10,000 for the safety of an intimate video.

First of all, experts advise, in such a situation, you need to go to the police. Perhaps the blackmailer will be caught and punished. But if you start paying, the swindler can get a taste of it and no longer get off the neck of his victim. There are cases when victims paid large sums to scammers for months to keep their secrets.

Expensive gift from abroad

There are many bitter stories on the Internet from women who trusted foreign suitors from dating sites. Foreign swindlers are almost no different from Russian ones, except that their courtship is more spectacular. A potential husband from Europe or America tells the future bride that he has serious intentions, and he is ready to take her to him and give her a carefree life in abundance and prosperity. Correspondence has been going on for several months, the swindler comes up with an ideal story for himself, as a rule, his fate is tragic. Compassionate women, ready to regret and sympathize, quickly open their hearts and wallets to scammers.

45-year-old Tatyana from Voronezh corresponded with Helmut from Germany for six months. The man introduced himself as a businessman, was charming and persistent. He said that a few years ago his wife died of cancer, there are no parents, and now he is alone in the whole world. During the conversation, the woman mentioned that she had a birthday soon, and the next day Helmut wrote that he had bought a gift for her. The giver was persistent and promised to be offended if she refused the surprise.

Since delivery by mail would take a very long time, the German decided to choose a reliable transport company that promised to deliver the goods as soon as possible. He asked me to give him his home address and said that the courier would deliver the surprise directly to his home. A couple of days later, Tatyana received a message on her mobile with the name of the site where you can track the shipment. In the personal account, it was written that the parcel was already on the way, and the estimated value of the gift was just over 400 euros. It was also written on the company's website that the recipient needed to pay for delivery in the amount of 50 euros before the courier arrived.

Helmut explained to Tatiana that he had put this money into the gift box so that she could later reimburse herself for the shipping costs. The woman transferred the money, but the next day the site was no longer working, and the groom from Germany stopped communicating. Having scored his data in the search engine, the woman realized that she had been communicating with a fictional character for the past few months. In such cases, experts advise checking the reputation of the company through which they promise to send the gift.

by Notes of the Wild Mistress

Actually, I'm not jealous, and my wife never gave me a reason or reason for jealousy. And it all started with a joke.

The fact that my wife is fond of computer communication, I knew for a long time. But he did not mind, because he understood that she was bored at home. The wife has not worked for several years. Ever since I gave birth, I have stayed at home. The child has already gone to school, but at the family council we decided that it would be better if she was at home, because you need to take your daughter to school and pick her up from there, feed her, do homework with her, and it’s good in the house when comfort and order. And everything is fine with money, I earn enough.

My wife herself always told me who she met in the chat, what new recipes she found, what else she learned from the Internet. Once, in a conversation with a friend, I mentioned this hobby of hers, and a friend said that I did not understand anything. Like, I'm at work all the time, and my wife there, for sure, flirts with anyone and leads an active virtual life.

I'm still wondering, what's the difference? A friend pressed on, told about virtual sex, and that in the states there were even divorces for this reason. It seems to be a trifle, but he planted doubts in me.

I knew the chat in which my wife communicates, and she never hid it, but here at work I had free time. And I decided to look there, to see how my wife communicates there, how she behaves or something. Came, and then she appeared! Word for word, we got to know each other. It all started so jokingly, cheerfully, I was even going to tell my wife in the evening so that they would laugh together, and then, damn it, invited her to “private”, started talking.

I both recognized my wife and did not recognize her, she spoke in such an unusual way for me. Moreover, she flirted so skillfully that I felt a little uneasy. I don’t know why, but asked for her email address, which she readily gave and added that she would be waiting for letters, because ... she was lonely.

In the evening after work, I hoped that my wife would tell about a new acquaintance, but she was silent. The next day I wrote her a letter, she replied. We started a correspondence. She kept wondering how I feel her tastes, passions, interests, but you understand that it was easy for me to do this, I have been married to her for nine years.

When I told a friend about this, he looked at me sympathetically:

Your wife started an affair behind your back, and you're laughing?

Well, what kind of romance can be with your own husband?

You know that it's a husband, but she thinks that an outsider is a man! And in your place could be anyone, do you even understand that?

I still considered what was happening a joke and even came up with an appointment, being sure that my wife would refuse, that she was married and loved her husband. But in her letters she generally avoided talking about her marital status, although she spoke about her daughter willingly.

At home, I began to notice that my wife cheered up, stopped scolding me when I was late at work and even became some kind of more attentive, or something. As if she felt guilty and tried to compensate for it in advance with courtesy. I began to understand that the game had gone far, but I could not stop. My letters became more frank. I wrote to her about love - but I really loved her.

When she first wrote that her life had changed, that she no longer felt lonely because I showed up, I felt sick. It suddenly dawned that the “joke” dragged on and acquired a completely different meaning.

In the evening, I came home from work early, grabbed flowers, wine, intending to spend the evening together and tell everything, hoping that we would laugh together, and everything would be the same as before. But nothing happened. My wife behaved strangely, as if avoiding me, absentmindedly thanked me for the flowers, only surprised that I had arrived ahead of time. And, even got up from the table a couple of times, went to the computer, checking the mail.

And I decided to make a date with her. In the same cafe where we met with her when we were not yet married. She agreed. After work, I bought flowers and went to our cafe with her. Seeing me, my wife jumped up from the table, looking around in fright. I tried to calm her down, saying that she was waiting for me, that it was I who wrote all these letters to her, but she did not say anything, she only looked with despair, eyes full of tears.

At home, she just silently packed her things, dressed her daughter and went to her parents. And I was torn apart by conflicting feelings: she actually cheated on me, so why do I feel like a scoundrel ?!

Some time passed, we were able to talk normally, but something broke in both of us. We even tried to live together again, only it was clear to both of us that none of this would work. So we got divorced.

Three years have passed since this story. I meet with my daughter, I help financially, I also saw my wife, who is now ex, several times. Recently I was told that she is going to get married. Yes, and I have a woman with whom a serious relationship. Only I remember this story all the time and I just can’t understand which of us is to blame for what happened?

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